marriage by Mrs Ferguson in sisterhood

1. take your time to listen to God and develope a habit of daily devotion.
    
 ¹⁰⁵ Your word is a lamp to my feet
       and a light for my path.
2. watch your language: how would you like to be spoken to

3. stay grateful" count your blessing every single day

4. remember you have choice: your feeling; your attitude; perspective; don;t have victim mentality

5. treat another with honor: fon;t wait to your husband become honorable

6. follow Jesus' example and sumbit: Jesus sumbit to Father, we are called to submit; i sumbit to my husband as i do to the Lord; there are limit to submission. *wives, submit yourselves to your husband as is fitting to the Lord* --> how can i best imitate Jesus

7. pick your battles-avoid the temptations to nag as love is not easily angered. make a goal that your home is the heaven of peace

8. forgiveness is hard but it is not optional: remember what you have been forgiven

¹³Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.

9. enjoy the daily journey together. donlt miss out marriage is so daily; the present moment: live in the life of full together even in the ordinary day

10. make God the center of marriage:
       1. see the bigger picture, marriage is not just two people but also the reflection of Christ and His church;
        2. don;t make your husband an idol to fullfill everything you need;
        3. give you hopebecause God is the inventor of marriage, the one who bless marriage is fighting for us
        4. decide to involve God in every area of our lives